The World Needs You to Step Outside of Your Comfort Zone (let this be your focus as you engage with the solar new year)

Spirited Beings, 

I wish you all the child-like awe and wonder for this life’s wild ride over the holidays. 

No matter how you gather, celebrate, or steer clear of such a tradition, know that every moment is a gift to experience yourself and this world with the attunement of child-like wonder and curiosity ….BUT that doesn’t mean it’s always possible to experience the form of awe that you were conditioned to cherish in every moment. What every moment can offer you though is insight, hindsight and a mini revolution - some thing that will bring you closer to experiencing more love, peace, power, connection and purpose

I think the holidays are beautiful and provocative for this — no matter what you value and believe, so I encourage you to make them your own. Yours and your loved ones own signature experience. Bend the rules, honour traditions that feel right, rebel the ways that tax you, expand the time bound to Christmas day (or the holiday season for that matter).

Choose forgiveness and Courageous Love while anchored in your own self-honouring experience. Don’t people please, self and people love.

Notice where you have more choice when you feel safe, and accepted by yourself..

Choose presence, compassion, and self love, so that you can remain open to the wild gifts of the divine field.  

Succumb to, and potentially dare to, revel in the gifts of the unknown…. what could be.

Engaging in a time of celebration, and connection amidst a pandemic of more than just a virus, is likely to feel out of alignment if you a) believe that the worlds pain is your pain to carry all the time, and b) if your nervous system is disregulated from chronic stress, survival patterns , and/or unprocessed trauma (somatically).

Now the Lord, and every beating heart for that matter, knows that our outer world is a shit-storm right now, so how can you hold space for more peace, and understanding for yourself, and those you love during this time?

If there’s anything you take away from this stream of words, know that your inner world doesn’t have to be at the mercy of your external conditions.

This being said, depending on where your nervous system is at, many of us are more vulnerable to our external climate, so if this is you — if you find yourself highly impacted by the state of the world, then the first step would be to open yourself up to deeper self-compassion and understanding. 

The second step would be to make a commitment to yourself to move beyond the mind, and learn how to regulate your nervous system through somatic healing (which I’m offering 1-1 again in January!).

So, what’s your current experience of yourself and the world? Pause and notice beyond your mind. Ask your body, how are you right now? Observe where there is sensation (or lack of) in your body, and what is at the root of those sensations.

Self inquire. How is the state of the world impacting my experience of myself and my relationships? How can I transform my current experience into an empowered and loving one without suppressing what is? 

The wild thing about today is that we’re at an intersection that herstory hasn’t seen in a long time. We’re merging with a time of limitlessness (otherwise known as ascension) through a collective rock bottom, so it’s time to equip ourselves with the skills necessary to not only honour our current truth, but to activate a greater expression of our authentic selves (the Divine aspects of ourselves that often hides behind chronic resistance, dis-ease in our bodies, and falsely constructed limits and beliefs), so that we can reclaim more of our innate limitlessness.

I strongly believe that we’ve come to a time where we can no longer hold back. Holding back from now on will bring us more division, pain and sickness. And this, as we all know, is far from what we need.

So, as you begin to claim and express your limitlessness through the exploration of your true nature — the deepest part of you that is free of conditioning and the stories of your past, it’s paramount you discern what you carry forward. And not just In your thoughts, and mindset, but in your cells, nervous system, electromagnetic field (energy body) and Ancestral line.

Now is your time to heal if you want to play big. And by big, I mean true to you, and in alignment with what that deeper voice calls for (not to be mistaken for the triggered emotional voice that’s always responding to the records of your past).

Now is the time for NEW. New systems, new beliefs, new realities, new traditions, new relational, neurological and spiritual connections.

It’s time to actively co-create by leaning in, listening, and birthing in new ways. 

It’s time to choose evolving edges over comfort and love over fear. 

If we continue to choose comfort, over evolution then we are continuing to press replay on a period of time in our lives, instead of co-creating something entirely new.

Inviting the new is experienced by doing something.new. By experiencing new things and courageously meeting the discomfort of that refractory period between your activated intentions, and when you’re able to witness the impact of them….

Now is the time to prioritize imagination, integral healing, and quantum play.

It’s a time to say no to collective norms that no longer feel right and good.

It’s time to honour what you take on and in, and what you pass on (mentally and energetically). 

We’re entering a time where B.S. will no longer be tolerated — where our words have to align with our deepest truths (instead of our egos, or someone else’s), And, even more importantly, a time where our actions have to be anchored in our wholeness if we want to dance with this ascension.

It’s a time to learn how to trust your Knowing and listen to the voices that often get ignored — especially the sensations of your body (but don’t believe everything you think your body is saying just yet; because the truth is, just like the ego, the current collectives understanding of how our bodies speak to us, is very limited).

So follow the brilliance of your body by noticing where expansion meets contraction, love intersects with fear, and resistance merges with passion...and then follow those bread crumbs without expectation of what you think you’ll find.

On that note, stop controlling and start participating in a frequency that’s beyond where you are now.

The goal is to be open to the unknown, and to unfold, so that you and I can create something new. Something more loving and beautiful than what we’ve experienced.

If any of these invitations are met with a “yes, but how” then know that I’m here to support, and guide you (and that you’re far from alone in not yet knowing how to engage with life in this way).

In January I’m opening up my core 1-1 Liberation Sessions!

And soon after that, I’m inviting a small group women who are ready to open themselves up to expand in order to up level their impact as agents of change during such a pivotal time. This is a 6 month container for inside out liberation and transformation to root and rise from a place of purity, wholeness, regulation, authentic brilliance, courageous love and humble transparency — whether you’re a mother, teacher, coach, advocate, or leader, this space is for you to dive deep and transcend the current systems and patterns from the inside out.

We’re at a time where it’s not enough to utilize our energy and knowledge as leaders... we’re at a time where we need to integrate the next level of liberation and lean into the shadow of collective trauma in masterful ways rather than keep reaching around it.

We need to steer ourselves into being more limitless and sovereign in the way we show up four ourselves, if we want to be a force of change in this new world.

As women in the hot seats (which we all are in our own unique ways) we need to meet what we’ve ignored.

We can no longer deny our deepest wounds, unconscious survival patterns and collective trauma. Leaders can not lead from a trauma-oblivious place.

It’s time to experience ourselves, and this world in a more coherent, embodied, and whole way, so that our work can move from this place (rather than the common norm of unhealthy masculine and wounded feminine power).

The days of show and tell are gone. The days of deeper empathy, core reconciliation, integrated wisdom, and honouring the need for the Feminine to find its place in our ways and systems, is what is needed.

So, if it’s your destiny to shape a world you want to belong to, and you’re ready to focus more of your energy (not time) in this way, then join us! 

The world truly needs us to step outside of our comfort zones in more self-honouring, masterful, fluid, rooted and healthy ways.