DEEPER LOVE 

The Somatic Way to Secure and Passionate Love

a path back to intimacy, wholeness, and devotion — without self-abandonment.

A sacred 6-month somatic healing immersion for couples to rewire relational patterns, deepen secure attachment, and embody connection through the body — not just insight.

Includes Zoey’s 5 Core Relational Teachings + Optional Parenting Resources.

THE INVITATION

Love isn’t supposed to be hard… or is it?

Depending on who you ask, love is meant to challenge you—meant to poke at your deepest wounds, stir your nervous system, and awaken what’s been lying dormant. Because when done consciously, love becomes a portal for healing. A ground where you don’t just learn how to relate to another—you learn how to relate to yourself.

Your relationship isn’t just about the two of you. It’s an alchemy of biology, personal history, intergenerational trauma, and unconscious patterns. A living, breathing entity shaped by everything that has come before you.

You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books. You know your attachment style.

But still—you get triggered and struggle to show up in the ways you truly long to. You find yourself shutting down or avoiding conflict. Or maybe you can’t fully surrender into the pleasure of secure and passionate sexuality, because your nervous system is stuck in protection over connection.

Maybe you crave closeness and then pull away when it arrives.

Or you feel more comfortable relying on yourself than opening to receive. You long for connection but fear the vulnerability it requires. You’ve learned to stay in control because letting go has never felt safe.

Or perhaps you swing between craving intimacy and fearing it…

…feeling consumed by the relationship one moment and disconnected the next. You want reassurance, but also fear being too much. You want safety, but don’t know how to relax into it.

Or maybe you find yourself stuck in confusion, hyper-vigilance, or chaos.

At times you shut down completely, and other times you over-function to keep the connection alive. Your system holds a deep ambivalence toward closeness — not because you’re broken, but because closeness was never safe enough to trust.

These are not flaws. These are patterns of protection — shaped by what your body learned early on about what was safe and what wasn’t.

Because until you include the body—the soma—love remains theoretical. Insight isn’t enough. Real transformation requires embodiment.

Whether you’re in relationship or calling one in, this is where love becomes a healing ground. Where your nervous system, not just your mind, learns how to trust, soften, and open again.

This is a journey of healing, deepening, and expanding in ways your current reality may not yet even understand.

Because most of us were never shown how to be safe in love.

WHY THIS WORK

Intimacy Lives in the Body, Not the Mind

95% of how we show up in relationship is unconscious—shaped before we had language or choice. Love, intimacy, and connection begin in the nervous system, not the mind.

This work focuses on healing what lives underneath:

  • The triggers you can’t talk yourself out of

  • The distance that forms even when you want closeness

  • The collapse, shutdown, fawning, or anxious spirals when things get hard

This immersion is a somatic healing journey to restore your body’s capacity to love and be loved—to rewire attachment patterns, regulate your nervous system, and shift from protection into connection.

YOU’LL LEARN HOW TO:

01.

Reclaim your attachment blueprint

02.

Interrupt generational patterns

03.

Build secure foundations for sacred partnership

This is how you return to connection—

not just through effort, but through physiology.

WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE

Imagine this:

  • Communicating without shutdown or spirals

  • Feeling safe during conflict, not just afterward

  • Loving without abandoning yourself

  • Receiving pleasure without guilt or dissociation

  • Co-regulating in real time, even through challenge

  • Replacing old relational patterns with embodied repair

  • Returning to softness, eroticism, and sovereignty

  • Naming and holding boundaries from a grounded place

Whether partnered or not, this work supports you in becoming the kind of partner you long to be—to yourself, and to another.

SCIENCE meets SOUL 

Love and intimacy are both poetic and scientific. This work bridges the mechanics and the mystery—your body’s wisdom and your soul’s longing.

We draw from:

  • Somatic Experiencing®

  • Polyvagal Theory

  • Somatic Attachment & Co-Regulation

  • Trauma Resolution & Relational Repair

  • Parts Work & Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • Ancestral Healing & Resource Activation

  • Embodied Emotional Intelligence & Erotic Practice

Zoey’s 5 Core Relational Teachings:

01.
Nervous System-Based Communication

02.
Emotional Literacy + Resilience

03.
Conscious Conflict & Repair

04.
Pleasure, Eros & Body-Based Intimacy

05.
Boundaries, Devotion, and Individual Sovereignty

Introducing

DEEPER LOVE

6-Month 2:1 Immersion

What’s included in the container:

  • Weekly co-regulated sessions (75 minutes)

  • Full access to Zoey’s 5 Core Relational Teachings

  • Somatic resources, clearings, and guided practices

  • Includes the Personal Evolution Track of The Somatic Way to deepen self-trust and internal coherence

  • Optional individual sessions available at additional cost

Optional Add-On: Core Resources for Couples that are Parents Additional teachings and tools for couples navigating relational dynamics while parenting. Add-on cost applies.

INVESTMENT

$9,999 USD

(Payment plan available upon request)
Many couples choose to layer 1:1 sessions alongside this immersion for parallel support.

Book a Discovery Session

WHY AN APPLICATION?

This isn’t about exclusion. It’s about right timing and mutual alignment.

This journey asks for depth, devotion, and full-hearted engagement. The application helps us discern if this space, this work, and this season are truly aligned—and that you’re resourced and ready to invest in the relationship your heart actually wants.

Everyone is welcome. All of you is welcome.

Meet Your Guide

Zoey

Hi, I’m Zoey — and I don’t just teach this work. I live it.

There was a time I couldn’t relax into love. Even in relationships that had potential, I couldn’t show up the way I truly longed to. I would over-give, over-function, shut down, or act out in ways I didn’t feel proud of. I ached for closeness but stayed guarded. I wanted intimacy but didn’t know how to feel safe in it.

And no matter how many books I read, how many therapy sessions I attended, or how deeply I explored spiritual practice… I still found myself stuck in cycles of protection, projection, and disconnection — reenacting the very wounds I was trying to heal.

Somatic Trauma Healing Practitioner (SEP) | Nervous System Educator | Somatic Attachment & Relational Coach | Embodiment Facilitator | Integrative Coach

It wasn’t until I understood my nervous system, my default attachment stance, and the somatic imprints shaping my capacity to love and be loved that everything began to change.

My healing didn’t come from talking about love. It came from learning how to feel safe enough to receive it. From coming home to my body. From knowing what to do when I get triggered. From learning how to stay close to myself, so I could stay close to another.

Today, I’m in a relationship that is tender, real, and rooted in truth — not perfection. And I’m not sure “perfect” is even the goal when we’re committed to healing and rewiring what love means. Our relationship still bumps up against old patterns and conditioned responses. But we have the tools, the trust, and the devotion to keep returning — to ourselves and to each other — again and again.

And I want to be clear — I’m also not perfect. I still get triggered. I still forget. I still fall into old grooves. But the difference now is that I know how to come back. I have capacity. I have tools. I have devotion.

The Somatic Way and this Deeper Love Immersion aren’t polished endpoints — they’re living, breathing expressions of my life’s work.

They are sacred passion projects born of my lived experience, shaped by my personal healing, study and they are offered from my whole heart.

If you’re ready to co-create a love that’s rooted in your truth — not your trauma — I’d be honored to walk with you.

 FAQs

  • Yes. This is a 2:1 immersion. For individual relational work, please explore Zoey’s 1:1 Immersion.

  • Most sessions are 2:1, but if only one of you is available, we adjust. Individual support can also be added at an extra cost.

  • Yes. All sessions are conducted online.

  • Yes. All 5 Core Teachings are yours to keep.

  • There is no integration support between sessions unless added separately.

  • No. Zoey is not a licensed therapist. She is a certified Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner and nervous system educator with over 20 years of experience.

  • This container supports relational clarity. Sometimes that means deeper union, sometimes it means parting with love. Both outcomes are honored.

FINAL INVITATION 

True intimacy starts by returning to the parts of you that were never met in love.

This is a space to shift the cycle. To co-create a relationship rooted in embodiment, coherence, and courageous devotion.

If you’re ready to meet your relationship with new eyes, new tools, and a deeper nervous system capacity for love—let’s begin.